Jay Valens on October 18th, 2008

Ray and I provide some commetary here on the “Do you have a girlfriend?” tactics video. It’s the same video as before except the audio track is subdued in place of our commentary.

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Another routine video coming next!

~Jay

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Jay Valens on October 17th, 2008

We all get this question a lot when talking to girls, especially when there’s either some flirting or the girl is probing to evaluate her interest level: “Do you have a girlfriend?”  If at the time we do, saying “yes” is certainly OK but depending on why she’s asking we might want to answer the question differently.  If at the time we don’t, saying “no” isn’t really the best option, and this video shows various ways to deal with the question effectively.

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Tomorrow I’ll be sharing a version of the video with commentary from myself and Ray.

~Jay

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Jay Valens on October 16th, 2008

Here’s Part 9 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques. It’s the final stage covered in Foundations, and shortly we’ll be sharing actual pickup routines and examples.

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~Jay

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Jay Valens on October 15th, 2008

Here’s Part 8 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques. Getting comfort right will help lead to the bedroom. We’ll have a great deal to cover in the “Tactics & techniques” program, so this is an intro as to what the comfort stage is all about.

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Sometimes the comfort stage is not needed and a guy can go from attraction rght into seduction, but the times that it is needed you can’t skip it.

By the way, don’t forget that we have a variety of free “Tactics & techniques” bonuses for you. Just go to:

http://www.artofthepickup.com/aotptt/

Very soon, we’ll also be releasing actual routine videos. Keep a lookout on the blog and our YouTube and Myspace pages.

~Jay

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Jay Valens on October 14th, 2008

Here’s Part 7 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques. Figuring out how to transition from attraction into a zone of comfort is pretty important. You need strategies for building trust, getting follow-ups, and achieving isolation. Here’s a broad intro to that topic which will be covered in-depth in our “Tactics & techniques” program.

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Jay Valens on October 12th, 2008

Here’s Part 6 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques. Attraction is a big part of the equation, and this is the third foundation of understanding for it.

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Jay Valens on October 9th, 2008

Here’s Part 5 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques. Additional coverage on the broad strokes of attraction!

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Jay Valens on October 6th, 2008

Here’s Part 4 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques.  Some broad strokes on attraction for you!  This is stuff we’ll be covering in detail for you soon, with specific routines.

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Jay Valens on October 4th, 2008

Here’s Part 3 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques.  It covers the basics of what we’ll be getting to with other videos, particularly transitioning from opening into attraction.

We screened all our other videos to a bunch of girls and asked them to give us feedback and something that really stood out for them was that although there are guys out there who do approach them, it usually fizzles after that, and it never occurred to them it’s because a lot of those guys probably didn’t know how to transition from initially talking to them into actually getting them really interested.

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Jay Valens on October 3rd, 2008

Here’s Part 2 of the Foundations for Tactics & Techniques.  It gives a broad overview about opening and elements of openers, and opening.

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