Jay Valens on September 29th, 2008

We know why you’re here. We know what you’ve been doing… why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, and why, night after night, you sit by your computer. You’re looking for satisfaction.

We know because we were once looking for the same thing. And when we found it, we realized we weren’t really just looking for satisfaction. We were looking for an answer to a question. It’s the question that drives us. It’s the question that brought you here. You know the question, just as we did.

“What is the art of the pickup?”

It seems simple enough, and the answer is looking for you, and it will find you if you want it to.

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Jay Valens on March 7th, 2010

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Jay Valens on February 21st, 2010
  • Apologies for the links not working, I fixed them with redirects. Just a stupid blog issue plugin issue. 3 new 3some posts coming up… #
  • Threesome Report: Amazing…: A2daMIR http://bit.ly/bMoefS #
  • Threesome Report: Manage-a-trois, BIG TIME AMOG, funny stuff: rickyricon http://bit.ly/bw2gfV #
  • Threesome Report: First threesome of 2008: A2daMIR http://bit.ly/dDkOvy #
  • @Jaysin586 Thanks for letting me know, fixed all the links. Blog plugin wasn’t working right when I fixed the dates but it’s all set now. in reply to Jaysin586 #
  • Geek alert: I’m designing my own sitemap tool (kind of necessary given the size & complexity of FS) but the effort should be worth it. #

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Jay Valens on February 17th, 2010

As a follow-up to the blog post on retention, earlier tonight I sent out an email to our subscribers about the true key aspect of how to keep a girl once you’ve got her.

I mean, what’s the point of meeting & pickup up a girl you’re really into if you can’t manage to KEEP her?

I outlined a whole bunch of things in the retention post but there really is an incredible key element that, if you do well, will ensure she’ll be sticking around for a long, long time.

If you’re not subscribed to our newsletters, then you missed my talk about it, you can subscribe at:

http://www.artofthepickup.com/

But, to recap, I essentially covered how important SEX is and more than just in a “do it right” sort of way, but why it matters and what aspects of how well you do it will make the difference.

Friend Shawna - Teaches Sex

Friend Shawna - Teaches Sex

Lucky for you, my friend Shawna (a porn actress) did really nice write-up on the topic and you can download it from here:

http://www.artofthepickup.com/shawna-notes

I mean, who else do I trust to give you the best advice on how to best please a woman than a woman herself?  And not just any woman, but one that makes a living out of having sex and a woman who loves (REALLY loves) pleasing women as much as men.

Go grab her write-up, it’s an eye-opener.

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Jay Valens on January 31st, 2010
  • PAIR system upgrade nearing completion. Migration script prepped, Community Connector coded, not much left but to wrap & test. #
  • Set up a profiling debugger on the live site, working to optimize the sections with the slowest load. #
  • There’s always hiccups when planning out data migration… I’d rather change code than confuse people, rolling up sleeves again… #

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Jay Valens on January 24th, 2010
  • Translation improvements, updated SiteMap http://tr.im/fsmap, & consolidated news into separate blog & it gets my Tweets http://tr.im/fsnews #
  • Threesome blog launched. Old posts on it now, will populate it with more in coming days & weeks - http://threesomearchive.com/ #
  • PAIR & Albums forms needs fixing due to site revamp. Just part of the pain of transitioning from sloppy HTML to strict XHTML. #

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Jay Valens on January 10th, 2010
  • Been meaning to update. I have a pre-ulcer but working thru it to finish a full site re-design. Be on the lookout for an announcement soon. #
  • New site design went live 20 minutes ago - http://www.fastseduction.com/ #
  • @timeclockman Doc didn’t tell me anything specific yet, I just stopped the iffy foods for now, including coffee, until I get the full info. in reply to timeclockman #

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