It’s the question that brought you here.

We know why you’re here. We know what you’ve been doing… why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, and why, night after night, you sit by your computer. You’re looking for satisfaction.

We know because we were once looking for the same thing. And when we found it, we realized we weren’t really just looking for satisfaction. We were looking for an answer to a question. It’s the question that drives us. It’s the question that brought you here. You know the question, just as we did.

“What is the art of the pickup?”

It seems simple enough, and the answer is looking for you, and it will find you if you want it to.

My name is Jay Valens.  You may know me already, but if you don’t I’ll give you the short version of the story:  A long time ago I was just an average everyday guy, and there was a time I was seeking the same help you are now.  I was trying to figure out how to be better with women.  I wanted to know how to meet more women, what to say, and how to be more attractive.  I really didn’t know the answer and just presumed that every guy around me who I saw being successful was either just lucky or had qualities I didn’t have.

It was crazy to think that way but, to my eyes and what I could perceive, that’s how it was.  Right now I’m not any smarter than I was back then.  I’m not any better looking.  I’m not taller.  I’m not luckier.  What happened was, I had a question, and I sought out an answer.  I didn’t give up even when I found the hint to an answer.  One day I got myself in the position to have access to men out there who were successful with women, guys who had started cracking the code of success, and I began to take notes and pool resources.  Most importantly, I went out to confirm what I was learning and eventually built on a small community and turned it into a big one.  I began to change my own life and, I realized more importantly I was on the path to helping endless men out there change their lives, too.

Before I knew it, I had built the largest community on the planet of men who were on the same path I was - whether to improve their life with women, or help other guys do the same.  Along the way I became friends with Ray Devans and he helped me flesh out a more focused vision of what this community could really be.  His background had some similarity to mine, and together we worked on what can only be described as manifest destiny to bring to this world what Ray likes to refer to as “Casanova meets the Internet”.  It had gotten so big that the story of one of it’s participants found its way into being a New York Times best seller.

I realized there could be more.  I realized what was needed was an evolution in teaching.  I wanted to take the knowledge and put together a mechanism to share it in a format that was much easier to learn with, and really help a guy get from A to Z without having to literally pause his life for months or even years to do so.

So I asked myself a new question.  How could I take the answer to my original question, that had long since been answered for me, and turn it into the most straightforward solution for other men out there?

The result was “The Art of the Pickup” (aka AOTP), the first-ever interactive DVD course on picking up women.  We released that a little over 2 years ago and, to this day, there still is nothing that matches it.  It’s the best resource out there for guys just getting started in learning how to meet and be more successful with women, and truly fills the role of being an A-to-Z how-to guide without needing to get too advanced.  It simply helps get the basic job done for a guy.

But that’s not the end of the story, and 6 months after releasing “The Art of the Pickup” I knew we could take things to the next level.  I wanted to hit on more advanced information, and truly take full advantage of interactive features that we scratched the surface on with AOTP.  I still wanted to make something that was self-contained and stand on it’s own, not at all re-doing what we did so well with AOTP, but rather create the “Killer App” of the pickup world.

It wasn’t easy.  It took a lot of hard work, extremely involved production effort, and focused persistence.  18 months later, the goal was accomplished.  We’re going to dedicate this blog to introduce you to our new creation and soon give you the chance to be one of the first & few men on the planet to have access to what’s been in our “mad scientist” lab for nearly 2 years.

So, bookmark this site and get ready for greatness.

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