Jay Valens on February 21st, 2010
  • Apologies for the links not working, I fixed them with redirects. Just a stupid blog issue plugin issue. 3 new 3some posts coming up… #
  • Threesome Report: Amazing…: A2daMIR http://bit.ly/bMoefS #
  • Threesome Report: Manage-a-trois, BIG TIME AMOG, funny stuff: rickyricon http://bit.ly/bw2gfV #
  • Threesome Report: First threesome of 2008: A2daMIR http://bit.ly/dDkOvy #
  • @Jaysin586 Thanks for letting me know, fixed all the links. Blog plugin wasn’t working right when I fixed the dates but it’s all set now. in reply to Jaysin586 #
  • Geek alert: I’m designing my own sitemap tool (kind of necessary given the size & complexity of FS) but the effort should be worth it. #

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Jay Valens on February 17th, 2010

As a follow-up to the blog post on retention, earlier tonight I sent out an email to our subscribers about the true key aspect of how to keep a girl once you’ve got her.

I mean, what’s the point of meeting & pickup up a girl you’re really into if you can’t manage to KEEP her?

I outlined a whole bunch of things in the retention post but there really is an incredible key element that, if you do well, will ensure she’ll be sticking around for a long, long time.

If you’re not subscribed to our newsletters, then you missed my talk about it, you can subscribe at:


But, to recap, I essentially covered how important SEX is and more than just in a “do it right” sort of way, but why it matters and what aspects of how well you do it will make the difference.

Friend Shawna - Teaches Sex

Friend Shawna - Teaches Sex

Lucky for you, my friend Shawna (a porn actress) did really nice write-up on the topic and you can download it from here:


I mean, who else do I trust to give you the best advice on how to best please a woman than a woman herself?  And not just any woman, but one that makes a living out of having sex and a woman who loves (REALLY loves) pleasing women as much as men.

Go grab her write-up, it’s an eye-opener.

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Jay Valens on January 31st, 2010
  • PAIR system upgrade nearing completion. Migration script prepped, Community Connector coded, not much left but to wrap & test. #
  • Set up a profiling debugger on the live site, working to optimize the sections with the slowest load. #
  • There’s always hiccups when planning out data migration… I’d rather change code than confuse people, rolling up sleeves again… #

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Jay Valens on January 24th, 2010
  • Translation improvements, updated SiteMap http://tr.im/fsmap, & consolidated news into separate blog & it gets my Tweets http://tr.im/fsnews #
  • Threesome blog launched. Old posts on it now, will populate it with more in coming days & weeks - http://threesomearchive.com/ #
  • PAIR & Albums forms needs fixing due to site revamp. Just part of the pain of transitioning from sloppy HTML to strict XHTML. #

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Jay Valens on January 10th, 2010
  • Been meaning to update. I have a pre-ulcer but working thru it to finish a full site re-design. Be on the lookout for an announcement soon. #
  • New site design went live 20 minutes ago - http://www.fastseduction.com/ #
  • @timeclockman Doc didn’t tell me anything specific yet, I just stopped the iffy foods for now, including coffee, until I get the full info. in reply to timeclockman #

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Jay Valens on December 13th, 2009
  • mASF Search being worked on. Will be new & improved, no more errors. Give me 2-3 days to wrap. #
  • “Web 2.0″ gushers get under my skin. Can they do more than snip from others’ widgets/code? Build a functional/large-scale site, then talk… #
  • Oops, crashed the server just now pre-populating the new search database. Forgot that sometimes even 4GB of RAM isn’t enough. Re-coding… #
  • Design-by-committee (open source): not all it’s cracked up to be. The future is data warehousing & exposed interfaces, not exposed code. #
  • @timeclockman Keep me abreast of times you’d plan to go, my free time’s limited for a but + I have to avoid alcohol & red meat for a while. in reply to timeclockman #
  • Forum search fix & upgrades live. If you want to out-do me, I have an API for you. http://www.fastseduction.com/d…..ction=5006 #

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Jay Valens on November 15th, 2009
  • There goes my Facebook account again. Apparently, I was adding friends “too fast” (even if I KNOW them?). Well, fuck Facebook. In the face. #
  • @timeclockman Can we find one where the ratio is good & near my area? Maybe in a couple weeks or so… in reply to timeclockman #
  • @ House of Blues w/ cousins for “King of the Blues”. #

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Jay Valens on November 8th, 2009
  • Funny how things work. I’m thinking my body doesn’t like wine. I’ll have to avoid it for a while and see what happens… #

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