Comments for What is AOTP? http://whatisaotp.com Sun, 12 Apr 2026 11:13:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 Comment on It’s the question that brought you here. by Jay Valens http://whatisaotp.com/2008/09/29/the-question/#comment-5014 Jay Valens Wed, 28 Jul 2010 23:54:12 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?p=11#comment-5014 Gabe, of course there are other reasons. The gist is that these are the most common reasons. Anyway, you're 23 and you can either allow your partial paralysis to get in your way or not. Am I saying it's somehow irrelevant? No, of course not. But, it's done, you can't do anything about it now other than get better as best as you can and keep yourself focused on productive efforts, things to improve your life. Focus on you and expand on & enjoy the things you still can do, and other things will fall into place a lot easier. Gabe, of course there are other reasons. The gist is that these are the most common reasons. Anyway, you’re 23 and you can either allow your partial paralysis to get in your way or not. Am I saying it’s somehow irrelevant? No, of course not. But, it’s done, you can’t do anything about it now other than get better as best as you can and keep yourself focused on productive efforts, things to improve your life. Focus on you and expand on & enjoy the things you still can do, and other things will fall into place a lot easier.

]]> Comment on Retention Rate Strategies by vinay http://whatisaotp.com/2010/02/12/retention-rate-strategies/#comment-5001 vinay Sun, 18 Jul 2010 08:26:33 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?p=459#comment-5001 Good once so much to learn from you. You are great!!! Good once so much to learn from you. You are great!!!

]]> Comment on It’s the question that brought you here. by G. http://whatisaotp.com/2008/09/29/the-question/#comment-5000 G. Sat, 17 Jul 2010 03:40:40 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?p=11#comment-5000 Dude...u DON'T know me... sure, u're correct (We know why you’re here. We know what you’ve been doing… why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, and why, night after night, you sit by your computer...) UNLIKE others i'm "not afraid"...so y am i alone? well, the FACT is (that because of an accident) that not only is my left leg "paralyzed" (it hurts to bend and keep my weight on it and the way i talk is messed up), my left arm is as well (i am also currently in a wheelchair, until i regain my ability to walk.KNOWING ALL THIS, am i just to trust you that your 'tips' will help? do u see my dilema? gabe (I HAVE the 'background' needed to blow women away (blow the away sexually...and by 'background i mean the knowledge of what/where r eregenous zones, and i have muscles ;) ...) see this happened to me at 18...i woke up in a hospital about six months later...(now 23...) i live with my parents...ALL my old friends are gone...ALL the girls ... r gonei'm thinking about returning to university in sept. (when i get a power chair). but until then...like i WILL GLADLY 'chat up' the females...but i just want u to know there also r OTHER reasons for NOT having dates (i KNOW my problem...your product can't help...) Dude…u DON’T know me…

sure, u’re correct (We know why you’re here. We know what you’ve been doing… why you hardly sleep, why you live alone, and why, night after night, you sit by your computer…)

UNLIKE others i’m “not afraid”…so y am i alone?

well, the FACT is (that because of an accident) that not only is my left leg “paralyzed” (it hurts to bend and keep my weight on it and the way i talk is messed up), my left arm is as well (i am also currently in a wheelchair, until i regain my ability to walk.KNOWING ALL THIS, am i just to trust you that your ‘tips’ will help? do u see my dilema?
gabe
(I HAVE the ‘background’ needed to blow women away (blow the away sexually…and by ‘background i mean the knowledge of what/where r eregenous zones, and i have muscles ;) …)

see this happened to me at 18…i woke up in a hospital about six months later…(now 23…) i live with my parents…ALL my old friends are gone…ALL the girls … r gonei’m thinking about returning to university in sept. (when i get a power chair).

but until then…like i WILL GLADLY ‘chat up’ the females…but i just want u to know there also r OTHER reasons for NOT having dates
(i KNOW my problem…your product can’t help…)

]]> Comment on It’s the question that brought you here. by john http://whatisaotp.com/2008/09/29/the-question/#comment-4973 john Wed, 23 Jun 2010 04:46:36 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?p=11#comment-4973 you guys are doing a great job.you are da bomb you guys are doing a great job.you are da bomb

]]> Comment on Bootcamp Comments 001 by Jesse http://whatisaotp.com/2008/11/04/comments-001/#comment-4966 Jesse Thu, 17 Jun 2010 17:13:31 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?page_id=348#comment-4966 code - 2lWSwofZoBbnD3112 Hey I've been out of town so I am a little behind on this, but the thing I am most afraid of is TOUCHING girls. I get stuck in friendzone a lot and I think it's because I do great in interactions, but don't advance physically... like at all. The first girl I tried this on, I was focusing on finding a way to touch her instead of the convo. When I did reach out and brush her hand with mine (while laughing as if that would cover it up) she wasn't weirded out, but I could tell it felt strange for the both of us. The second time, I was sitting next to a girl in a bar on a cruise ship (why I've been out of town, whoop whoop!) just shooting the shit and I realized our shoulders were touching. I heard somewhere that it's more natural to touch someone while they are responding to you, so I leaned into her shoulder as she spoke and leaned back when I spoke. After a while she started speaking more as if she was trying to keep me closer to her. It reinforced the "women WANT to be touched, it's natural" feeling for me... but I still have a little work to do on that. code - 2lWSwofZoBbnD3112

Hey I’ve been out of town so I am a little behind on this, but the thing I am most afraid of is TOUCHING girls. I get stuck in friendzone a lot and I think it’s because I do great in interactions, but don’t advance physically… like at all.

The first girl I tried this on, I was focusing on finding a way to touch her instead of the convo. When I did reach out and brush her hand with mine (while laughing as if that would cover it up) she wasn’t weirded out, but I could tell it felt strange for the both of us.

The second time, I was sitting next to a girl in a bar on a cruise ship (why I’ve been out of town, whoop whoop!) just shooting the shit and I realized our shoulders were touching. I heard somewhere that it’s more natural to touch someone while they are responding to you, so I leaned into her shoulder as she spoke and leaned back when I spoke.
After a while she started speaking more as if she was trying to keep me closer to her. It reinforced the “women WANT to be touched, it’s natural” feeling for me… but I still have a little work to do on that.

]]> Comment on Bootcamp Comments 001 by Mercenary http://whatisaotp.com/2008/11/04/comments-001/#comment-4963 Mercenary Wed, 16 Jun 2010 21:12:35 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?page_id=348#comment-4963 6slK7BQlRV6Qbv1D Today i did arrangment for a date. So here is the report: HB7 - my neighbor (next floor), she likes me (keeps eye contact more than 5 second, smiling, all the time when sees me - looking at me). 4 days ago i approached her (before that i didnt know her, i'm new in that house), opened situationally, 10 minutes of convo, some DHV routine, some mind reading, and sh gave me her number without resistance. And now it starts classical "Push". I'll explain: Today i came to her place for a date arrangement, so i rang the ring, she opened a door, we start to talk (firstly she said she even dont have a 10 minutes, but we spoke 15 or more),,i negged her slightly, then i started to elicit her values, recognize when she have a free time, so whole convo went realy good (positive, jokes from both sides,). But every time when i was insistant and that way or another spoke about what we can do together , and set up the dates, she said something like: i'm busy (she told she got 2 jobs, and study, and session soon), i have no time for anything except things in the brackets. I said , ok - there is nothing works on sundays, so you cant work that day for sure. and she said that she will sit whole day in her room with her neighbor (another girl) and study for a session. I changed a topic, and after couple minutes said - that i need to go, to do my busyness. So she starts classical "Push" phase. I plan to do the same for 4 days. Cut the contacts, no convos etc. What else should i do to make her chase me? Cause it looks like she know the game and plays her part. For example, in Russia we do a trick with an first SMS, like: "I found something interesting about you" or "I told fortune on you with Taro cards, and things which i seen - shocked me", and after that at least 4 hours (better 24) of total ignorance. That way person get interested and keep thinking about the sender. Works in 95% of case. BUT she dont respond. So as i told before, looks like this cat know what she is doing. What is the best way for me to get her for a date? Thank you very much for the answer. 6slK7BQlRV6Qbv1D
Today i did arrangment for a date. So here is the report:
HB7 - my neighbor (next floor), she likes me (keeps eye contact more than 5 second, smiling, all the time when sees me - looking at me). 4 days ago i approached her (before that i didnt know her, i’m new in that house), opened situationally, 10 minutes of convo, some DHV routine, some mind reading, and sh gave me her number without resistance. And now it starts classical “Push”. I’ll explain: Today i came to her place for a date arrangement, so i rang the ring, she opened a door, we start to talk (firstly she said she even dont have a 10 minutes, but we spoke 15 or more),,i negged her slightly, then i started to elicit her values, recognize when she have a free time, so whole convo went realy good (positive, jokes from both sides,). But every time when i was insistant and that way or another spoke about what we can do together , and set up the dates, she said something like: i’m busy (she told she got 2 jobs, and study, and session soon), i have no time for anything except things in the brackets. I said , ok - there is nothing works on sundays, so you cant work that day for sure. and she said that she will sit whole day in her room with her neighbor (another girl) and study for a session. I changed a topic, and after couple minutes said - that i need to go, to do my busyness. So she starts classical “Push” phase. I plan to do the same for 4 days. Cut the contacts, no convos etc. What else should i do to make her chase me? Cause it looks like she know the game and plays her part. For example, in Russia we do a trick with an first SMS, like: “I found something interesting about you” or “I told fortune on you with Taro cards, and things which i seen - shocked me”, and after that at least 4 hours (better 24) of total ignorance. That way person get interested and keep thinking about the sender. Works in 95% of case. BUT she dont respond. So as i told before, looks like this cat know what she is doing. What is the best way for me to get her for a date? Thank you very much for the answer.

]]> Comment on Bootcamp Comments 001 by Jay Valens http://whatisaotp.com/2008/11/04/comments-001/#comment-4960 Jay Valens Mon, 14 Jun 2010 23:20:14 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?page_id=348#comment-4960 One type of environment being easier than another is more about what your goals are and level of experience & confidence in the environment. Confidence comes from knowledge and familiarity, so in places you're not yet familiar, knowledgeable or comfortable, it will take some practice and experience to get better. In a club environment, more people see it as "normal" if they talk to strangers there, so in that sense it's easier than day game. It's also more natural to collect phone numbers. Also, if you know what you're doing, a lot quicker to get into a sexual encounter. However, night clubs are also harsh social environments where the interactions people have with each other are extremely de-valued. Day time, you will not encounter this harshness but you also have to calibrate a lot better with the wide possible rand of girls and moods and situations. It's also easier to "walk away" mentally in day game since you can walk a block and you're already outside of an area which you might have a bad experience. In a club, you're basically stuck in the same box/location for the night and you need a thicker skin to deal with potentially unfriendly reactions. Here's what I suggest you do, presuming you feel that the social environments in clubs are something you want to conquer: Go to a club once every 2 weeks, maybe more, maybe less, depending on your schedule and how much you can tolerate it. However, don't give up on your normal day game. You need consistency so that you don't allow anything negative you feel from one environment overshadow other things you do. That way you know if you don't do so well one night in a club, you have the rest of the week doing things that you feel work better for you, and you can relieve most of your anxieties over it that way. It will allow you a way to not put so much emphasis on what result you might get from clubs, and that might be a key to help you not feel like being in a club is somehow like being "raped". If after a couple of months your feelings don't change and you don't see any improvement in your life coming from club time, then don't bother with it. No sense in wasting time in your life doing something that isn't giving you results, even when you put good effort in, and especially if it doesn't make you happy. So long as you are doing SOMETHING in your life that you are finding positive and getting you the results that you like, then you're fine. There's no rule of life that says a guy has to go to night clubs to have a successful social life. One type of environment being easier than another is more about what your goals are and level of experience & confidence in the environment. Confidence comes from knowledge and familiarity, so in places you’re not yet familiar, knowledgeable or comfortable, it will take some practice and experience to get better.

In a club environment, more people see it as “normal” if they talk to strangers there, so in that sense it’s easier than day game. It’s also more natural to collect phone numbers. Also, if you know what you’re doing, a lot quicker to get into a sexual encounter. However, night clubs are also harsh social environments where the interactions people have with each other are extremely de-valued.

Day time, you will not encounter this harshness but you also have to calibrate a lot better with the wide possible rand of girls and moods and situations. It’s also easier to “walk away” mentally in day game since you can walk a block and you’re already outside of an area which you might have a bad experience. In a club, you’re basically stuck in the same box/location for the night and you need a thicker skin to deal with potentially unfriendly reactions.

Here’s what I suggest you do, presuming you feel that the social environments in clubs are something you want to conquer:

Go to a club once every 2 weeks, maybe more, maybe less, depending on your schedule and how much you can tolerate it. However, don’t give up on your normal day game. You need consistency so that you don’t allow anything negative you feel from one environment overshadow other things you do. That way you know if you don’t do so well one night in a club, you have the rest of the week doing things that you feel work better for you, and you can relieve most of your anxieties over it that way. It will allow you a way to not put so much emphasis on what result you might get from clubs, and that might be a key to help you not feel like being in a club is somehow like being “raped”.

If after a couple of months your feelings don’t change and you don’t see any improvement in your life coming from club time, then don’t bother with it. No sense in wasting time in your life doing something that isn’t giving you results, even when you put good effort in, and especially if it doesn’t make you happy. So long as you are doing SOMETHING in your life that you are finding positive and getting you the results that you like, then you’re fine. There’s no rule of life that says a guy has to go to night clubs to have a successful social life.

]]> Comment on Bootcamp Comments 001 by Mercenary http://whatisaotp.com/2008/11/04/comments-001/#comment-4959 Mercenary Mon, 14 Jun 2010 21:37:57 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?page_id=348#comment-4959 code: 6slK7BQlRV6Qbv1D I was afraid to approach on a central street of town where i'm study now. But there wasnt any problems with other places (parallel street or even lake beach when i approached 7-set, used our russian opener "can u guard my stuff - i need to go out for a minute", and after i returned i used canned "who lies more" and kept convo for 10 minutes then went away). So i was really thinking what kind of fear it may be (back in Russia, i havent anything of those dealing with "central street"). I decided - it is probably "fear of society",and i came at 6 p.m. on the central sqare of our town (it's not bigger then half-soccer field) and i did stand in front of cafe full of people, and with a full volume start to sing the Anthem of USSR ( i'm in Germany by the way ;) ), so everybody in radius 100 meters perfectly heard my song. Then i said : Thank you(i dont speak german). And slowly went away (somebody applaused, like 5-7 people). Right after that - i went to the central street and start approaching. Now i do it dayly - it became my favorite TRP. Opening now go good, even situational (ratio of canned/situational like 60/40), closing is not cool so far - but i working on it ). Back in Russia - i never did this journal stuff or forum things, but now i see how useful they are. But it was easier in Russia at least for me, there i used our PU model, and did it for 3 weeks (then i started to do my diploma project and was totaly out of life - for a month, who did tha will undertand me). and for three weeks i get laid 2 girls. Son now when my game is not so effective - i use this positive memories as a motivation factor. So 5 days a week i do 3-5 approaches daily. Planning to increase amount to 10-12 - tomorrow. I got question, i'm a day gamer - i prefer street and any other place during the day. But i read that night club PU is easier. I tryed it here - it was actually the first place where i started to practise Mystery Method, i approached 4 different 2-sets. But every time when i go to a club - it is like raping myself. i dont like environment, hate club music. For whole my life i've been in night club just twice. But if i in some kind of resort place (hotel, cruise etc), i always attend disco there - and that is seems natural and cool for me(like dancing with a girl on a table, or kiss her in front of everybody). Frame is different. Jay can you tell me please - should i just go in clubs and work it out till i reduce this "raping" feeling, or i just need to concentrate on day game, and dont really do stuff which i dont like and not enjoy. code: 6slK7BQlRV6Qbv1D
I was afraid to approach on a central street of town where i’m study now. But there wasnt any problems with other places (parallel street or even lake beach when i approached 7-set, used our russian opener “can u guard my stuff - i need to go out for a minute”, and after i returned i used canned “who lies more” and kept convo for 10 minutes then went away). So i was really thinking what kind of fear it may be (back in Russia, i havent anything of those dealing with “central street”). I decided - it is probably “fear of society”,and i came at 6 p.m. on the central sqare of our town (it’s not bigger then half-soccer field) and i did stand in front of cafe full of people, and with a full volume start to sing the Anthem of USSR ( i’m in Germany by the way ;) ), so everybody in radius 100 meters perfectly heard my song. Then i said : Thank you(i dont speak german). And slowly went away (somebody applaused, like 5-7 people). Right after that - i went to the central street and start approaching. Now i do it dayly - it became my favorite TRP. Opening now go good, even situational (ratio of canned/situational like 60/40), closing is not cool so far - but i working on it ). Back in Russia - i never did this journal stuff or forum things, but now i see how useful they are. But it was easier in Russia at least for me, there i used our PU model, and did it for 3 weeks (then i started to do my diploma project and was totaly out of life - for a month, who did tha will undertand me). and for three weeks i get laid 2 girls. Son now when my game is not so effective - i use this positive memories as a motivation factor. So 5 days a week i do 3-5 approaches daily. Planning to increase amount to 10-12 - tomorrow. I got question, i’m a day gamer - i prefer street and any other place during the day. But i read that night club PU is easier. I tryed it here - it was actually the first place where i started to practise Mystery Method, i approached 4 different 2-sets. But every time when i go to a club - it is like raping myself. i dont like environment, hate club music. For whole my life i’ve been in night club just twice. But if i in some kind of resort place (hotel, cruise etc), i always attend disco there - and that is seems natural and cool for me(like dancing with a girl on a table, or kiss her in front of everybody). Frame is different. Jay can you tell me please - should i just go in clubs and work it out till i reduce this “raping” feeling, or i just need to concentrate on day game, and dont really do stuff which i dont like and not enjoy.

]]> Comment on Why Cocky/Funny Is Destroying Your Chances With Women by harish http://whatisaotp.com/2009/02/12/cocky-funny-is-destroying-your-chances-1/#comment-4881 harish Wed, 05 May 2010 15:37:53 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?p=380#comment-4881 hey i am from india and i read david deangeleno cocky comedy and applied it it works like a BOMB BLAST 10 OUT of 10 every one are looking like a love guru women are chasing it ...its not i am fucking them because i am in iniatial stage ....its not only words really its the VOICE TONE (arrogant one) and tell anything... see i will give u one example... we went to collect money for flood welfare... i: hey sunita did u pay the money of 100 to child welfare she:blah blah she: what u will do with the money: i: we will do party..(tell seriously arrogant tone) she: busted up..... hey i am from india and i read david deangeleno cocky comedy and applied it it works like a BOMB BLAST 10 OUT of 10 every one are looking like a love guru women are chasing it …its not i am fucking them because i am in iniatial stage ….its not only words
really its the VOICE TONE (arrogant one) and tell anything…

see i will give u one example…

we went to collect money for flood welfare…

i: hey sunita did u pay the money of 100 to child welfare
she:blah blah
she: what u will do with the money:
i: we will do party..(tell seriously arrogant tone)
she: busted up…..

]]> Comment on Bootcamp Comments 001 by Jay Valens http://whatisaotp.com/2008/11/04/comments-001/#comment-4876 Jay Valens Mon, 26 Apr 2010 21:02:03 +0000 http://whatisaotp.com/?page_id=348#comment-4876 nomada73, you're doing fine. What you should definitely do is KEEP this behavior up. You've got the right attitude and are going to progress just fine. If you ever feel stuck in your progress, don't forget that the DVDs will help guide you. Don't try to memorize everything, but rather step through them at the same stage & pace as your progress, try to focus mainly on getting from A to B, then focus on getting from B to C, then C to D, etc. Too many guys want to try to go from A to Z immediately. Patience & regular (and positive) effort will be way more fruitful. nomada73, you’re doing fine. What you should definitely do is KEEP this behavior up. You’ve got the right attitude and are going to progress just fine. If you ever feel stuck in your progress, don’t forget that the DVDs will help guide you. Don’t try to memorize everything, but rather step through them at the same stage & pace as your progress, try to focus mainly on getting from A to B, then focus on getting from B to C, then C to D, etc. Too many guys want to try to go from A to Z immediately. Patience & regular (and positive) effort will be way more fruitful.

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